Saturday, May 22, 2010

3 Flirting Tips That Will Drive Him Wild


It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship or just found some guy that you are interested in, flirting can be a very effective way to get his attention and keep it. Guys simply love to be flirted with and, quite simply, it turns our brains to mush and makes us very suggestable to just about anything. And it really doesn’t take as much as you might think to drive a man to distraction and make him spend the rest of the day thinking of you and only you.

Sometimes overt flirting with a lot of touching and sexual innuendo can make a man forget what his name is but often situations won’t permit this kind of flirting, especially in a workplace setting. Even in public such flirting techniques as dirty dancing or flirting with physical contact simply isn’t appropriate or available as an option. In such cases it is going to take a more subtle kind of flirting to get your message across and start the wheels in your man’s mind turning. The great thing about this kind of flirting is that once you master it you will be able to pull it off anywhere, at any time in front of anybody and you will get the same response out of a man as you would if you were whispering nasty sweet nothings in his ear.

The Eyes – Spend some time when you have a chance looking in the mirror and practicing using your eyes to flirt with. Often a sideways glance with your mouth just a little open and some hair in the way can create a stunning, stop-him-in-his-tracks look that is a combination of flirty and sultry at the same time with a good dash of sexuality thrown in for good measure. Find out what looks better for you. Could it be with your eyes wide open and a bit of a wry smile on your face or a dreamy bedroom eyes look with your eyes half shut? What effect does batting your eyelashes have? Do you look hotter when you are looking up or to the side?

Your Lips – Your lips can be a focal point for many guys and it doesn’t take a whole lot of red lipstick to get a guy’s attention. It is more what you do with your lips that should be your concern when you are flirting. Biting on the nail of your forefinger when you are indecisive can bring attention to your lips. Most of the time leaving your lips naturally parted just a little bit can send a message of sexual tension. Likewise, biting on your lower lip or licking your lips just a little bit can send a very flirty signal to a guy. Be careful not to overdo it and try to appear natural when using these techniques though. Guys that have a lot of experience might be wise to what you’re trying to do and guys who don’t have a whole lot of experience will sense that something is going on but they won’t be quite sure what it is. Subtlety is the key here when using these flirting techniques.

Touching – Any time you touch someone you create a connection with them. There really is something magical about the power of touch and many believe that in touching another human being there is actually transference or sharing of your personal power or life force. Either way, incidental touching can be a powerful way to flirting with a guy. Just a subtle touch on the arm, shoulder or back can cause a man that you are flirting with to feel a connection with you that is undeniable. If you aren’t brazen enough to touch him while you are flirting with him you can touch his shirt or jacket as you say that you like it or pretend to pick a piece of lint off of him. If you really want to go for the gold you can try touching his face or his hair saying that there is an eyelash on his cheek or a fuzzy in his hair. Running your fingers through his hair afterwards is optional but highly arousing.

Flirting can be one of the most powerful and exciting seduction techniques that you can use to attract a man. Every man will appreciate a little innocent flirting and you might even find that as your skills improve you will be attracting men that even the pretty girls can’t seem to crack. A flirtatious personality is one of the most desirable traits that any man will find attractive, even if he doesn’t know exactly why. That is the beautiful thing about some innocent flirting. It will make you appear more attractive to men and honestly they won’t exactly know why.

To learn how to flirt with men we recommend Mimi Tanner’s Secrets of Flirting With Men. Find out how you can hone your flirting skills and become the flirt that you always dreamed of. Men will love you for it!

Good Luck!

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Wish You Knew How To Flirt With Men?


For some women flirting and seduction comes quite easily. You might even know a few women that are almost natural flirts. Without much effort at all they have the ability to flirt with men in all situations and to be able to wrap even the most cold hearted man around their little finger. Some women even flirt without knowing it and when questioned they deny even know that they’re flirting. For other women flirting might seem awkward or even beyond their grasp and if you are one of these women you know how frustrating that can be.

You wish that you had that natural flirting ability like other women or you wish that you could just be able to learn how to flirt effectively to attract the attention of a certain man. Or maybe you just wish to spice things up a little bit in your current relationship with a little sexy flirting. The attention received from men in all walks of life from flirting, both subtle and blatant flirting, can be a powerful tool for any woman.

As a man, I can tell you that a woman that can effectively flirt with me can pretty much have anything that she wants. I turn to a pile of mush and become stupid beyond belief. It really doesn’t take much and it’s not about dressing sexy or even being that beautiful. As a matter of fact, some of the women that I find most attractive might be considered plain or ordinary in most men’s eyes… but when they turn it on and flirt with me they are the most attractive woman in the room and my eyes are riveted to them the whole time they are in my presence. Even after they are gone they occupy my mind and I look forward to seeing them again like a love struck puppy.

So if you want to have that kind of power over a man and you don’t think that you are what most men might consider hot or sexy, learn how to flirt. There simply isn’t a more powerful motivator for men than a woman that can flirt; a woman that has “game”. It will make you appear more beautiful and attractive in a man’s eyes than any amount of plastic surgery and it is simply one of the greatest gifts and compliments that you can give to a man. It makes him feel important and as if he is the only man in the world at that moment in time.

If you just feel stupid or awkward flirting or if you think that you lack this natural ability then think again. This skill can be learned by any woman. And no, you don’t have to dress sleazy or even make overly suggestive remarks to flirt effectively. It is the little things that a guy will notice. It is the sideways glance; it is a smirking smile that says “I want you” without a word; it is a touch on the arm when you’re talking with him; it is how you carry yourself and the bounce in your step that oozes self confidence and pride and sexual energy.

Do you want to learn how to be successful at flirting? We recommend Mimi Tanners Secrets of Flirting With Men. Check it out and find out how you can be a flirt like you always dreamed of. Learn this exciting and powerful skill today.

Good Luck!