Flirting can be great fun! It is exciting and thrilling and is perhaps one of the most rewarding skills that you can cultivate as a woman. Superior flirting skills can cause even the most cold hearted man to suddenly start behaving like a school kid and there should be little doubt that it is quite possible to motivate a man to do anything within reason once he has fallen under the spell of a good flirt. The key to effective flirting can be summed up in one word and that word is subtlety. If you are too discreet with your flirting you run the risk of your intended flirtee missing your flirting altogether. On the other hand, if you overdo it and come off like a stripper you very well might have a sexual harassment lawsuit on your hands at best and a man that takes your flirting as you being easy at worst. You want to attract him but not at the expense of having to fend him off with a tazer, right?
Coy Glances – A coy glance out of the corner of your eye as your eyes meet can cause a man to feel that he is frozen in time. Just a little bit of a smile is all it takes as your eyes speak volumes about your desire for him. Without a word you can communicate the fact that you’re flirting with him with a coy look. If you have long hair this effect is made even more pronounced.
Whisper – Speak just a little more softly than you might in a normal conversation. The low level of your voice will cause him to have to move closer to you which is always a good thing. Whispering is also very seductive and sexy especially if you vary the cadence of you speech by hesitating almost nervously.
Smile – Everybody looks more attractive when they smile. A smile that brightens up your face when you see him will be noticed and will convey a very positive message. Allow your desire and happiness in seeing him to show through in your smile. To go from your normal every day happy half-smile to your full blown smile when you see him will let him know that he is someone special to you.
Head Tilt – By tilting your head ever so slightly and maybe even looking away just a little bit you will send a message that you are a little bit shy. Couple this with the coy smile or glance and you have a winning combination. Practice in a mirror every once in a while to really get your look down or try it out on a guy friend if there is one particular guy that you are trying to flirt with.
Laugh – Laugh at his jokes. Don’t over do it or appear fake but if at all possible laugh at his jokes or silly things he does. This will be a big boost to his ego and most of the time men like women who make them feel good about themselves. Of course, overdoing it and laughing too hard at a joke that really isn’t
Pick On Him – Picking on him just a little bit will create a bond and familiarity. If he is strong and secure he can handle it. If not and he acts offended you can always let him know that you were only joking and that you only pick on those people that you like. If he joins in or gives you more ammunition to use at a later date or begins picking on you a little bit in return you know that you have accomplished your mission. Harmless picking is a very good way to create tension.
Touch – A simple touch creates a connection and familiarity like nothing else. Touch him on the arm or shoulder as you’re talking. If you are flirting with someone that you are familiar with a simple touch when you are within close proximity can be a very effective way to create that connection that you desire.
As was stated formerly, subtlety and balance are key in effective flirting. Too little and chances are he won’t know you’re flirting with him…be too forward and you come off as a hussy or as being easy and likewise send the wrong impression. When done correctly there is nothing more exciting, exhilarating and fun than some innocent and heart warming flirting. Test out your flirting skills today and see.
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